The whole point of getting married is marriage. Don't neglect the relationship. Enjoy it, of course, but also grow it, nurture it, and strengthen it. This area is about doing just that, and about preparing together to have a happy, healthy, successful, and God-honoring marriage.
Things to Consider - Your relationship, pre- and post-wedding
- Big decisions
- Pre-marital counseling
- The honeymoon
Relationship Resources
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman (buy here)
Focus on the Family
Covenant Marriage
Smart Marriages
Tips and Ideas - Start dealing with big decisions and issues early in your engagement, not later when you are busier and under more stress as the wedding approaches
- Have worship together as a couple once or twice a week.
The Big Decisions All of these need to be addressed--and most of them need to be decided--before you get married. This includes decisions like. . . - Where will you live? How will you afford to live?
- Who will manage the money?
- How will bank accounts, money, and money management be combined?
- Will the wife work? What about after children?
- What about family planning?
- What will your roles be as husband and wife ~ in the marriage and in the home?
- What will each of your responsibilities be?
See also . . .
Becoming One sub-categories: Intimate Issues and the Honeymoon. |
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